Raksha ka Bandhan

        The cutest relationship of the world is that which is between siblings. In this relation we have all colours of life –care like parents, secret keeper like besties and freeness like friends etc…

The beauty of this bond has come from the same upbringing of each child from same environment from childhood, there is no generation gap, and they easily have quality time for each other and do not have any type of insecurity. Sibling are as thick as thieves. We get the occasion to celebrate this relationship on every Raksha bandan.

                    Raksha bandhan is a festival which is celebrated from ancient era. According to mythology Lord Krishna and Dhrawapthi, Yama (Lord of Death) and Yamuna river, King Bali and Goddess Lakshmi were not kin but they are brother and sister. In each story all brother’s protected his sister in crucial time and each sister loved her brother and respected him.

As time is passed like river water and changes occurred everywhere .Now these days we have different type of relationship like professional relationship, personal relationship, coffer friend, party friend. Sibling relationship is standby of all relationship but due to some reason we cannot enjoy this relationship.

If we analyze what are the reasons due to which siblings are not comfortable with each other or maintain a distance then we find root cause to be us   as a parents. As parent everyone wants their children to love each other and care each other but at the same time we compare them. We think that in today’s cut throat generation child cannot survive if they do not face competition from home. We always compare them with anyone. This may create dispute among them which can lead to unhealthy relations.

So how can they enjoy the sweetness of their relationship?

We are not ready to accept to have two or three children with individual characteristics and prowess. We always desire our all children be successful in every filed, they should be the hero of the world, but in reality each successful person know that success is achieved by own desire not pressurizes by any one. We should motivate, care, guide our child for better living and not pressurize them. We should be ready to accept their failures and all time motivate them to give one more try….

Many other reason of this dryness between sibling like social media, delay in planning of second child after etc…. we have but if we cover this reason we can solve 80%of the problem of this relationship solve.

So on this Rakhi do not to expect the costly gift from brother .just give quality time with each other and enjoy the ebullientness, softness and vivacious of this relationship.